Well, if you want to marry, but perhaps you do not have the patience necessary to you by some of these other lame "How" things already in place here? In fact, if you really want and what you believe is the one for you (if you're one for him, little or not) then there is nothing wrong with a little clever and using some reverse psychology. After all, most men need more than "a little push" in the "right" direction. They need a kick up the thigh. HARD.
Tips for you:- Do not mention marriage. Do not mention marriage. Do not mention the babies. Even if you're one of those crazy like that, not make it up.
- If a marriage is on TV, change channels / yawn / talk on the top of something completely irrelevant. If it's a film for example. Four Weddings and a Funeral just say something like "Andie MacDowell is very ugly, do not you think?" Whatever. Just do not spring centers on how sad or / sweet it is.
- If you go to a wedding at the same time do not comment on beauty, it is. As far as he is concerned hate you. "The food of shit, at inconvenient for everyone and everything is so unnecessary and tedious. God, you will not make me do this, will you?" You tell your boyfriend before leaving and preferably with a mindblowing sex and leave before he wakes up.
- While some friends and they engage you say before him, waiting for them to say. Do not honor the commitment and it seems to be a big problem for you (even if it is) going to the effort to say about this before having a chance. When he discovers that he will probably talk about you, you can be like "Oh yes, they told me already. God, they are all now much, but how will they cope? I feel sorry for people dealing with someone for the remainder of their lives ... "Then change the subject before he could respond.
- As above make him think you feel sorry for married couples. Let him know more than you or a conversation on the phone to a friend "When I saw John & Lisa today, they looked miserable. Misérables and bored. I suppose that the period of honeymoon off focused ... " And even stronger "Seriously, who wants to sleep with someone for therest of your life? Sheesh."
- If you want to face her parents, it asks you to meet his parents. If he wants to meet your parents, he suggests, it responds to your parents. You do not put things right. The most you can do is choose a weekend, you know, it is not busy and say "my parents wanted us on this weekend, but I told them you were busy. I thought you save the hassle. " Before, it may request a change of subject / leave the room. Leave the persistent thought in his mind. He needs to know it has something to work.
- If you get somewhere invited his friends and family are not current, do not invite him. Do not even mention it. Mention at the last minute you can, if you d '. Even better to speak after he arrived. If he asks why you did not say / you invite him say: "Well, I do not think you are interested ..."
- Do not go on holiday with him, unless he invites you and organize it all. If you want to go on vacation, invite your friends, not him. Even if you have a very bad time to cry in your hotel room and say how much you love him and miss it not know. You can not leave. He thought that you had a great time without him and you tell him not to worry - you will not be 'bored with details him. "
- Make plans that are not him. Limit the time you spend with him. If you're bored at home and he invites you over, your "busy" or "sick". You can not. It may be bored and you miss place. The time you fall on her because you're "not working" or "almost over." Have as much fun and sex as possible. You need more than you do when your not around.
- Do not live with him. If you do, get out. NOW. Use any excuse you have to. Your sick mother, you need space, you need to be closer to work. Did not matter. Do it.
- Do not have sex with yours. Have sex with her. Good sex. Fulfill its fantasies, do not squirm when he suggests you watch porn together and did not start on the hike on how you love him after that. Just sigh sexy (sighs is different from groaning, I might add) and curl up asleep next to him.
- Try to leave as soon as possible in the morning. Make excuses. If you do stay a bit longer, not to worry. Have breakfast, affectionate kiss him, but not to speak unless you speak.
- Do not leave things to his own. If you want to leave anything, I recommend "accidentally" leaving a soft or scarf or jumper on the bed or sofa. You must ensure that the smell of perfume you always wear too. Something delicate, but sexy. Think of something like Tommy Hilfiger Dreaming, not Poison by Dior. Get it?
- Never move things in his place or to complain about how he lives / behavior. Nobody likes nagger.
- This step is essential. Having been living outside for a while and you are sure it is connected to you, tell him you need to stay at her for a week: Your boiler broke, your apartment to be painted, your cousin lost needs somewhere to stay so. You do not put anything you want. You provide the essentials. You hold its own bathroom and clean. Same for the cuisine. You do not mention it. Then you treat it as a God. You embrace him, stroking him down to him and have great sex all the time. You do not harass him. You do not ask where it happens at night, what time it will be, either. You make snacks and tasty food and completely fulfill its refrigerator. You do not give peas flavored boiled lentils and pumpkin seeds. You do buy MAN & FOOD; Pizza, steak, bacon and family size packages of Doritos and Snickers. What he likes, you eat with no complaints whatever on your diet. You see what he likes on television, Football, Golf, High gear, The Sopranos ... And you do not complain when you miss an episode of Friends or Desperate Housewives. Ever. You always get everything on time, even if it means driving around the block 50 times by pretending that you are your friend. You do not have your friends and you have more to ring your phone / cell - not his house phone. Encourage him to get out while you stay home and have a bathroom. You can suggest that his guy friends to watch football while you go out shopping, is he something at the store? ... Get the idea? Then, before the week is also leaving. You say everything is sorted and you go home. Leave while he is at work / with friends too. Turn off the heat, turn off the lights, empty the refrigerator and leave a note saying that you had fun and see you next week.
- Distance yourself a bit more the following month, but be super sexy and glamor when you do go. You can even down conversation where you are surprised one of your married friends have said no to her husband at the suggestion of having a trio or subscribe to a porn channel. I give him a week or two after that and it is not yet on one knee and proposes obviously desperate. Moving forward. It will work on someone.